How to Plan a Green Funeral: A Stairway to Earth-ernety
In an era when sustainability and environmental awareness hold increasing importance, even our final farewells can become greener and more meaningful.
We will delve into a step-by-step guide on how to plan a green funeral, equipping you with the knowledge and insights necessary to make well-informed decisions.
Planning a green funeral is as easy as planning a traditional service, but if you’ve never done it before, here are steps to follow for arranging an eco-friendly farewell:
- Communicate your wishes with your family and friends
- Consult with a funeral director who specializes in green funerals
- Choose the green burial ground you like
- Consider cremation, human composting, or aquamation
And this is not all. Sometimes, a completely green funeral might not be an option, but many elements of a more traditional burial ceremony can be eco-friendly.
Using biodegradable caskets, eco-friendly transportation options, sustainable flowers, decorations and memorials, and eco-conscious catering are but a few of the things to consider.
Definition of Green Funeral
A green funeral, also known as an eco-friendly funeral, is a ceremony that embraces sustainable practices to minimize its impact on the environment.
- There’s a strong focus on biodegradable materials, natural burial techniques, and eco-friendly funeral settings.
- Biodegradable coffins or shrouds and burial sites that promote native plants actively help preserve the environment.
- In contrast, traditional burials often involve embalming (which has toxic fluids), durable caskets made of hardwood or metal, and concrete or metal burial vaults.
First Steps to a Green Funeral
Planning a green funeral involves research. It is a step-by-step incorporation of eco-friendly choices and sustainable practices. In other words, there are degrees of green a funeral can achieve.
- Not everyone lives close to a natural burial ground and many regular cemeteries have their unsustainable practices, quite literally, set in stone.
- If there are no green cemeteries in your area, you can make a traditional funeral much more eco-friendly.
- Nature-inspired elements in funeral arrangements, such as using locally sourced flowers and foliage and minimizing energy usage help a lot.
But before we discuss these practices and ideas in greater detail, you should understand that communication is key.
Communicating Your Wishes
Effective communication is vital when planning a natural funeral or any kind of burial, really. It is not the easiest topic to breach, especially with those close to you.
- Be patient with them if they don’t want to discuss your — and theirs — mortality.
- If they resist the talk, give them time, then try again.
- Be calm and express your eco-friendly preferences through open dialogue.
- Educate your loved ones about the meaningfulness of green funerals, as the idea might seem alien to them.
- Share your knowledge and values to help them understand and support your choices while fostering a collaborative planning process.
- Initiate conversations about minimizing environmental impact and the benefits of eco-conscious funeral practices.
- Listen to their perspectives and concerns, and together, explore ways to incorporate sustainable elements into the funeral arrangements.
The best and only way to ensure a farewell that aligns with your values is to effectively communicate your wishes. The conversations won’t always be easy and some natural resistance from those close to you is to be expected, as they’ll struggle to deal with the idea of losing you.
Write Down Your Green Funeral Plans
While a will may not specifically address burial preferences, other end-of-life documents can aid in ensuring your desired arrangements are carried out.
A will is a legal document that dictates what should happen with your assets after death. It involves three basic steps:
- Stating your wishes
- Appointing an executor
- Signing the document
However, in order to have your funeral plans laid out, it is better to create an end-of-life checklist. It helps with other practical matters too, but it can help greatly those close to you to carry out your final wishes in the right manner. Even if you’ve discussed everything in advance, grief and emotional turbulence can lead funeral arrangements astray.
Choosing a Funeral Director who Arranges Green Funerals
A funeral director with experience in green funerals can be of tremendous help. They can advise on the practical, legal, and spiritual aspects surround an econ-friendly burial.
The best way to find a qualified, helpful funeral director is by asking the right questions. To help you make an informed decision, here are a few essential queries to consider when planning your last moments on Earth:
- Do you specialize in eco-friendly or green funeral services?
- How do you go about it?
- What environmentally friendly options do you work with, such as biodegradable caskets or natural burial grounds?
- How do you minimize the ecological impact of embalming procedures?
- With which certified environmentally-friendly funeral homes in the area do you work?
By asking these questions, you can ensure that your chosen funeral director is knowledgeable about eco-friendly practices. A carefully planned conversation will reveal a lot about the funeral director’s expertise and can bring about new ideas about arrangements and proceedings.
In nine states, the involvement of a funeral director is compulsory by law. They are:
- New York
- New Jersey
- Illinois
- Michigan
- Connecticut
- Iowa
- Nebraska
- Indiana
- Louisiana
Funeral directors help a lot with the necessary paperwork and can advise on alternatives in case a natural burial ground is not an option.
Choosing an Eco-Friendly Burial Grounds
When it comes to eco-friendly funerals, selecting a burial ground for the purpose becomes crucial. Most funeral grounds and traditional funeral practices use concrete, metal, and other durable materials to deliver their manicured look.
- A direct burial is a simpler and usually faster (avoiding the need for embalming) option that reduces the carbon footprint, but it is not quite the same. Still, it allows time for a memorial service to be prepared thoughtfully and carefully – what is a direct burial? Learn more here.
- Eco-burial grounds prioritize sustainable land management practices, native vegetation preservation, and conservation efforts. Such eco-conscious funeral sites allow you to have a funeral without a casket while providing a final resting place and contributing positively to the environment.
By choosing such a burial ground, you can support the restoration and protection of natural landscapes.
Thanks to technological advancements, green burials and cremations offer funeral alternatives that reduce the environmental impact even further.
An environmentally conscious funeral can honor your values, promote the well-being of our planet, and leave a memorable last deed behind you.
Consider Cremation, Aquamation, or Human Composting
It is essential to address apprehensions and acknowledge eco-friendly cremation alternatives exist because the process itself isn’t without its environmental impact.
Cremation presents an opportunity to embrace the eternal cycle of life, as the transformative force of fire symbolizes our connection to the world.
- Beyond the profound personal and spiritual implications, cremation also holds considerable environmental advantages.
- Cremations actively minimize land usage and safeguard our invaluable natural resources.
- The usage of biodegradable urns also grant a sustainable and harmonious final resting place.
Water cremations (or aquamations) are even more eco-friendly than their fiery counterparts.
- They are being legally allowed in more and more States, and the process has a minuscule carbon footprint compared to regular cremation.
- Although fairly new to Europe, and legal in many countries, the UK will start offering resomation through various providers, such as Co-Op Funerals.
Human composting is arguably the most eco-friendly option of them all.
- It allows us to transform from dead matter to organic soil that can give birth to new life.
- Cremated ashes have no organic matter to speak of, but composting can turn us into new source of growth.
- Seven states – Nevada, New York, Washington, Colorado, Oregon, Vermont, and California — already allow it legally, and many more are in the process of legalizing it. The main issue with human composting is finding a facility that actually does it.
The Journey after the Funeral
After the funeral, a new journey unfolds for both the departed and the bereaved.
- Below ground, natural body decomposition allows for a return to the earth’s embrace, fostering the cycle of life.
- If you’re curious about the duration of the body’s natural preservation in a funeral setting, read more about how long a body lasts in a natural funeral.
Unlike in a traditional setting, where a stone memorial would mark the grave, at a natural burial ground, the grave can be “marked” with a tree or plaque. Tree pod burials are a thing, too.
- US: the Living Urn System, starting at $129
- UK: the Living Urn System via Amazon starting at £160, or BIOS Cremation Ashes Tree Urn starting at £160.
Above ground, memories and legacies endure, keeping loved ones alive in hearts and minds. It’s a time for healing, growth, and remembrance.
Here are a few pointers to help green funeral and memorial ceremony planning.
Choosing a Biodegradable Casket or Shroud
Selecting a biodegradable casket is a significant step toward returning to earth’s embrace — sustainable materials like bamboo, wicker, and cardboard offer eco-conscious options.
Bamboo provides strength and elegance; wicker exudes natural beauty, while cardboard offers affordability and even greater ease of decomposition.
Here is a table outlining the mentioned materials and their estimated average cost*:
Material | Estimated Average Cost |
Bamboo | $500 – $1,000 |
Wicker | $300 – $600 |
Cardboard | $100 – $300 |
*Please note that the estimated average costs are general ranges and can vary based on location, design intricacies, and additional features.
Choose based on personal preferences, cost considerations, and availability in your area. Opting for a biodegradable casket or a green burial shroud ensures a final resting place that blends with nature, reducing the ecological impact. In case there is no green burial ground nearby, consult with the funeral director of choice to see which regular cemetery accepts such coffins or only shrouds
Additional Resource:
For the United States:
- Green Burial Council: Offers certification for green burial providers and education on sustainable funeral practices. https://www.greenburialcouncil.org/
- Natural End Map: A directory to find green burial providers, natural cemeteries, and funeral directors across the US. https://www.naturalend.com/map.html
- Funeral Consumers Alliance: Provides information on consumer rights, funeral planning, and how to choose green funeral options. https://funerals.org/
- The Green Funeral Site: Offers resources and information on planning eco-friendly funerals, including a provider directory. https://www.thegreenfuneralsite.com/
For the United Kingdom:
- The Natural Death Centre: A charity that provides information on green burials, including a list of natural burial grounds in the UK. https://www.naturaldeath.org.uk/
- Good Funeral Guide: An independent, not-for-profit information resource that includes guidance on environmentally-friendly funerals. https://www.goodfuneralguide.co.uk/
- Ecoffins: Provides eco-friendly coffins and caskets made from sustainable materials, available in the UK. https://www.ecoffins.co.uk/